Being as parents for few years since Marcus was born, I spend a lot on him. It is worth to invest everything on our children, who does not agree with me? I have a friend told me that she does not want to have child at this moment. She is same age as me. What her reason not to have child now?  Well, no problem for both of wife and husband, just that they say cannot afford for a child. Both of them are working in high position.

May be I am so ‘kepoh’, but I just give my advise only for her good. If you really want to have a child, you sure will think of everything to give the best for the baby. You will work even harder to earn more money, mainly for your baby. This is I can assure as hubby and I work hard on what we’re doing now.  

For me, I’ve invested in health savings account for my kid besides education investment. It depends on your budget. It just like saving better than spend on shopping every week.

Hubby and I brought Marcus to Polo ground last Sunday. He was so excited to see people playing kites rather than those swing and slide he likes. Before we go home, I went to toilet and saw there are some youngsters sitting on the floor smoking non stop. They even talked loud like nobody around them. I really feel angry and they behaved like gangsters too. I thought to take a photo and post it, but really scare they will see and scold me.

Nowadays, there are many youngsters addict to drugs and alcohol. Doesn’t it sound scary? Of course we don’t hope that our kids act like them. As my father told me before, it’s not so important if we don’t have much education, but to be a good person. Well, I don’t mind if my son is not a doctor, an engineer, a lawyer or futures broker when he grows up. The most important thing is that he is a good person like my father said. But I will make sure he completes his studies to oversea.  

We will grow old one day and I always worry about aging. I started to use lot of products as to prevent the problem. Well, I know even I go for beauty treatment or cosmetic surgery, I still will reach my twilight years. What I worry the most is my health. As we grow older, health problems start to crop up unexpectedly. I scare growing old even though I know that every people will go through it.

I can see some older people need 24 hour care. I pray and hope that I can spend my twilight years happily and healthy with my family.  I do not want to be a burden to my kid. Well, if my kid unable to take care of me and hubby due to unforeseen circumstances in future, I don’t mind staying at a good care home.

There are many good care homes these days that provide dedicated care to the aged and the sick people. If you’re looking for a care home for your loved ones, do check out BetterCaring.com, it is a website that dedicated service for anyone who needs answers to crucial questions about care for themselves or their loved ones.

Before I get married, I always dream to live in any luxury homes with my dear hubby and kid. But I know it’s not a dream, my hubby can make my dream comes true one day. How nice to see my kid running around the garden while hubby and I sitting in a swing enjoy a cup of coffee.

That’s why hubby working hard and smart as to earn more money. Hope we have our ideal future live.  Well, looking for a luxury home is not an easy task, we need a real agent to help us in the future.