Before I picked up Marcus today, I knew that I’ll receive something from him. Yes, I am right. There’re two cards for Valentine’s Day and Chinese New Year in his school bag.

This time I’m so sure that he did most of them like colouring, tracing words, and paste. When compared to last year, his teacher did almost everything. LOL!!!

A lovely teddy bear with loves…….

He told me he coloured all, even tracing the words, “Mummy Daddy”

A red lantern….

I am so glad when I heard him singing some CNY songs like ”Chai Seh Tau” in front of me. You will forget all the sadness, pressure when your kid doing something that you can’t imagine it, and you will definitely laugh from bottom of your heart.   

I haven’t show hubby about the cards. He is real busy and attend his customers, friends’ annual dinners almost every night. Frankily, we haven’t do any CNY shopping, so I don’t hope that he will help me to buy a copper tile for the kitchen. I still not understand how the part time maid can break the kitchen wall tile. *shake head*

Here, I wish all of you HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR & HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!!!!

We didn’t throw him a birthday party this year, but a mini cake for him to bring to school. Since Marcus asked me if I am there with him for the cake cutting session, so I went to school during his recess time.

Just see where the kids looking at? They can’t wait for the cake or want the mini toy cars ?

They liked the cake I bought, but Marcus just ate a small piece only.

At night, we went out for dinner with my family members only. Yes, with another huge cake for Marcus too.

I asked him what cartoons he likes to have on the cake, so the Mickey & Minnie mouse. I thought he wants Ben10 or Transformers. Argh, from here you can see he is still like a baby.

A family photo.

We went home after the dinner as hubby had to meet up with few business plan consultants. At first, I wonder why can’t they meet day time but night time? Now I know, as they want to have beers.

Marcus will turn four tomorrow. We won’t throw him a birthday party this year as my FIL had just passed away not more than three months. We would be going out for dinner with my family members only. I ordered two birthday cakes for him. He will celebrate his birthday at school as well, just for cake cutting. He seems so excited and happy even it’s not a big party for him.   

Hubby and I have no idea what to buy for him anymore. He has many toys at home. Hubby suggested to bring him for a short vacation in KL this coming weekend. How I hope if it’s one of the Orlando vacation packages. LOL!!! It’s great for hubby to have another relax family trip again after too much of hardwork.

Marcus used to have nose bleeding once in a while since last year. I did bring him to see ENT specialist and the doctor said he’s having sensitive nose, no big problem. So if he rubs his nose, then he is easily get nose bleeding. Argh, but I still very worry about it.

He has no more nose bleeding for months, but mucus with little bit blood when he gets flu. It’s because his nose easily get hurt when he rubs it. Doctor did give some medicines for him, just a course. Anyway, I don’t want him to take too much medications if possible after the course.

I boil fish soup with black beans for him once a week. My parents and friend heard that it will help to heal nose bleeding. No harm to try as it’s just soup which we can have it too. does nutrisystem work besides the fish soup? I should let him try Herbalife, a nutrition product which hubby and I having it every day.

It’s not homework from school that I need to coach Marcus to do it. I will headache if the school give it to him. I am glad that his school no homework to bring home at his age now. LOL!!! This mummy really lazy huh?

You thought I am so free being a SAHM? No, no, no, hubby wants me to work 24 hours per day. We went to Popular bookstore in Jusco yesterday, and I bought some new story books for Marcus. But hubby asked me to find some pre-school exercises books too. Argh, I need to coach him to do it. @#$%^&*

He can hold pencil very well by now….

I can’t believe that he’s so concentrate doing tracing line…..but only for 2 minutes…..hahaha

Those exercises book that I bought mainly for tracing, counting, coloring, crossing. I am sure his school did teach him last year. This time is to repeat the work in different way only. Well, I think most 4 years old kids can’t sit quietly for more than 3 minutes, so one page per pay is more than enough for my kid.

I heard Marcus sang Christmas songs all day long few days ago, but now he’s addicted to Chinese New Year songs. Kids can change their mood very fast, huh? With the CNY approaching in few weeks time, his daddy bought him a new CNY vcd. Marcus likes to watch it so much. He even can sing after watched for few times, but pronounciation is not that good in Mandarin.

See, he switched on the tv once he’s back from school today, the first day of school. Gosh, this is really a bad habit. I let him watch for a while, so that I can go prepare him lunch. Don’t think that I have time to read some adipex reviews or newspaper unless he takes his nap.

This is the dics that hubby bought for him. I did watch it, not really a nice one. I think CNY songs with kids more joyful.

The long school holidays almost come to the end. Most parents are get ready and well prepared in terms of buying new uniforms, shoes, school bag, books and etc. As for me, I am yet to get any new stuffs for Marcus. I am so dilly dally, or blame to my laziness.

We did go to shopping centre, but hubby and I just looked for other things, and we ‘kepoh’ with the sales person who introduced their new POS systems, accounting and stock systems and etc. Gosh, they might think we’re business couple. LOL!!!

I should go to get those new stuffs for my kid before New Year. Hubby does not like to go shopping during weekends or public holidays. Yes, my kid is going to kindergarten on next Monday, no more nursery.

*This is a backdated post*

My mother’s cousie brought her two daughters all the way back to Ipoh from Kuantan last weekend. Marcus was so excited as he can play with two jie jies again. As usual, he pretended to be cool at first, but then no one can stop him to play after he warmed up.

We gathered at my parents’ house after dinner. Kids played crazily together and there’re no age gap.

My niece….she is a sweetie pie 

The next day, we went for a late breakfast. Marcus’s cousie wanted to join us too. Argh, another playmate and I had to take care two kids, of course my hubby was with me. Then, we met up with my mother, her cousie and daughters, sister and niece at Ipoh Parade. We had a short shopping. My auntie actually wanted to find a weather pack for her house, ended up nothing. You know, with five kids together, how to shop peacefully even there’re five adults there? :P 

Then, we had KFC for lunch. I purposely chose the KFC outlet with slides, so kids can have fun there.  We’re so lucky that there was no people when we’re arrived. I thought Marcus must be very tired, but he was not. Gosh, he only took his nap in the late evening.

This week I decided to place Marcus at school for an extra hour with lunch as I’m busy with a nutrition health training. Today is the first day and he is doing well. Didn’t hear any complains from him or teachers. He seems so happy and excited as he can have lunch together with his friends. Teacher told me that he finished his lunch by himself.  

Actually I want to let him have a try first if I really place him for full day in school when the school reopens.  I still considering. So far, I can’t see any security cameras at the school compound. May be I should suggest to the principal.

Marcus likes his school. He is in this school since August 08′, but I have registered him to another new school, it’s better and cheaper.

If you are my frequent reader to my blog, you might know that I seldom update it lately.  Lazy to write except with m*ney posts. LOL!!! I like to visit other blogs than update my blogs now. Well, I am busy to get more info on hard drives for my hubby’s new office.  So, not much time for me if I can’t visit your blog.  

I still considering and yet to make any decisions on my future job. Argh, it’s too hard to decide with two different jobs that I like. But for Marcus, he has multi jobs in hand. Recently, he likes to be a doctor, nurse, singer, policeman, fireman and even hairstylist.

He really pretend to be very professional even he does not have tools. He will take other things to replace like a torchlight become his mic. My mother in law and I become his patients, customers and audiences. Playing with him quite tired than doing house chores. LOL!!!

If I can’t do what he wants or make him angry, he will do this to me.

Marcus : Hello, police, come and catch mummy, ok, bye bye.

Me : #$%^&*(@#$

Marcus is back to school since yesterday.  He didn’t make fuss even though he’s off at home for a week. At first, I thought to cancel his holiday programme and spent more time with my mother in law, but hubby decided to let him continue as he has nothing to do and just watched his favourite cartoon movies when he didn’t go to school. Phew, mummy has some personal time back in the morning now.

I was the last parents who got back my son’s final year progress report card, art works and books back the other days. I didn’t attend the report review day with his teacher and principal as I was attending a seminar in Genting Highlands. Marucs showed off all his books to his father and grandmother. Well, I can see his improvement in academic and language development throughout this half year.  He is not so interested in painting and drawing only, other than that, all noted GOOD.

I was told that Marcus is well discipline, self independence, good manner in school. I am very glad. But he is not so self independence at home like I still have to feed him during meal times most of the times, wear shoes for him, ask him to drink water until sore throat. Gosh, he will pretend to call a police and catch us when we scold him.  May be he is spoilt by us.

Well, like my father, we’re not encourage to beat children, but to give advise first. So far, we haven’t use our weapon like stick or cloth hanger to beat Marcus, but to scare him only. I don’t hope to use it one day. I usually using my hands if he really makes me angry. Marcus scares when hubby and I open our eyes wide to stare at him. He knows that he’s wrong and standing quietly. Of course he will forget everything after that. :P I am sure if he really very naughty, I think hubby is the first who will beat him ‘kuat-kuat’.

School holidays is two weeks away.  I decided to let Marcus to join for his school holiday programme.  Some might think why not let the little child rest and enjoy during this long school holiday at home. For me, it’s good to send him to school to learn and play instead of just sitting in front of TV every hour. Afterall, it’s just half day.

Where to bring Marcus go during this coming school holidays? Hubby is thinking that we could stay a night at Hard Rock Hotel, Penang. No overseas trip until next year as we need to save more for our coming new house. So no stay at any hotels in orlando at the meantime, think have to wait hubby to retire first. LOL!!!

Actually hubby wants to celebrate my birthday, which is in November, so he planned to go Penang. Somemore his kid likes beach. My friends also decided to join us too when they knew it. It’s more fun to go in a group too, especially with kids.

Marcus is getting very close to his grandparents especially his kao fu even though they just meet up during weekend. My kid likes them much, you know why? Because they always buy him toys and sweets. Frankily, I really not like it. They’re really spoilt him. Every time when we go to my parents’ house, my kid sure go and open the fridge, look and find if he can get anything. Well, I think most kids are like him too.

I definitely not like my kid eat too many sweets, even one also cannot if possible, not too hard. Too straight? He has tooth decay now and I brought him to visit dentist weeks ago. The dentist told me can’t do anything, just brush his teeth day and night every day, wait the teeth change when he grows older.

Most of the time I show my NOT HAPPY face when my parents or others offer my kid those unhealthy snacks and tit bits. My father always say that I must let him try and eat everything. Yes, I do agree and let him eat whatever he likes except unhealthy food like fried food. Not that I won’t allow him to eat, but hopefully not to eat. LOL!!! Just see there are so many cases of diseases increasing day by day. How about for the next ten, twenty years? What will happen to our next generations?

My father always complain that I won’t let his grandson eat this and that, while his other friends’ grandchildren eat a lot of food, those unhealthy food likes fried nuggests, fried sausages, spicy curry, sweets and etc. He thinks I abuse his grandson and not let him eat. LOL!!!

I know they love him, but in other way spoiling him. I wonder if my kid will ask his grandfather to buy him those expensive real luxury car and car accessories when he grows up.